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If you are suspicious, Read this
If you think your spouse is having an affair, you need to read this book. It is a practical guide with real advice. By real, I mean that the advice given will actually work. There are some other guides out there that have advice that sounds good but it doesn't work. It is all just theory.This guide tells you what to look out for. It talks about how to investigate and get to the truth. Then it helps you set up everything you need to confront your spouse. Definitely a book worth reading for anyone who thinks something funny is going on.
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April 7, 2012 (Australia) | Helpful Votes: 1 | Rating: 5

Had To Get A Plan
I was pretty sure my wife was having an affair but I wasn't sure. I started doing some research online and just couldn't find information that gave me a complete picture. I'm a very analytical person and I needed something that was more like a roadmap. I know it's annoying to some that I have to do so much research, but that's what I do.When I got Leigh's book, I scanned quickly through it and realized this was just what I needed. I've now started back at the beginning and I'm going through all the steps. Some of the advice is so hard to do because this is so emotional. I'm doing the best I can to stay on the track laid out in the book. This is really helping me get my plan straight. This affair stuff is aweful.
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March 24, 2012 | Helpful Votes: 2 | Rating: 5

Practical Guide On Dealing With A Cheating Spouse.
This is an excellent clinical guide to dealing with the pain and turmoil of infidelity. Leigh has written of her personal experience and all the steps she took to manage her life when she found out her husband was cheating.The real strength in my mind with this book is how Leigh has taken the emotion out of the process. That may seem like a strange thing to say, if not an impossible thing to do, in the case of being cheated on. But as much as you may need emotional support and time to be with your pain, at this time you also need, very much need, a practical step by step process of what you need to do when you really don't feel able to do anything at all.If you suspect that your spouse may be cheating on you and you are hurt and don't know what to do, get Leigh's book
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March 22, 2012 | Helpful Votes: 2 | Rating: 5

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The reviews about this book speak volumes. Alexis states "This is not only a guide, but a story of the paths the author took after she was cheated on. I feel a real connection to her through the pages, and reading about her steps and triumph inspires me to be as okay as I can right now. This is by far the best compilation of knowledge on how to go about your life after such a tragedy."

And then Glenn Turner says, "The real strength ... is how Leigh has taken the emotion out of the process. That may seem like a strange thing to say, if not an impossible thing to do, in the case of being cheated on. But as much as you may need emotional support and time to be with your pain, at this time you also need, very much need, a practical step by step process of what you need to do when you really don't feel able to do anything at all."

J Jenner writes, "This book is very empowering" and "All the advice is practical as the title promises."

Leigh Richwood wrote this book after navigating through her husband's affair with bits and pieces of instruction she was able to gather through the process. As you'll learn when you read about Leigh's journey, she couldn't find all the help she needed in one place, so now she's pulled it all together for you in this book.

Along the way, Leigh shares some of her own personal experiences to let readers get a glimpse of how you truly can get through this most difficult time and remain complete and whole.

If you even suspect that your spouse is having an affair, get "What To Do When Your Spouse Cheats" right now to help you make the right decisions at the right times. Top to learn more

Spouse Hunting (A Romance Novella)

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An impressive first effort
I was hooked almost from the first page by this writer's fresh, fun voice and great sense of humor. But it was the characters, Elizabeth and Henry, who kept me flipping pages. Their relationship, which developed while Liz was searching for the perfect house, was sweet, but with just enough sizzle to make me remember how good a closed door love story can be."Spouse Hunting" is a quick read for a summer afternoon. It is also a bargain priced first glimpse of an author on the rise.
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May 27, 2011 (California) | Helpful Votes: 7 | Rating: 5

Happy Hunting
Lisa Scott's entry into the Kindle world with "Spouse Hunting" is a fast-paced, fun romance with two people who are not only house-hunting, but looking for themselves. Henry the realtor finds very creative ways to show potential homes to his client, Elizabeth. Both characters have their issues to overcome before they can find happiness in each other. The best part of this book is Scott's writing style. She throws in many witty little asides and inserts humor into Elizabeth's most stressful moments. The HEA is never in doubt, but it's fun to ride along on the home tours to see how they get there. Keep an eye out for more from Ms. Scott. This one is just the beginning.
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May 26, 2011 (Virginia) | Helpful Votes: 2 | Rating: 5

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Spouse Hunting: A romance novella
She's giving up on her happily ever after. But it just might find her anyway.

With her sister's wedding looming, Elizabeth Marshall decides it's time to buy a house on her own. She gave up on guys a while back. (It'll be her and fifteen cats, soon enough, if she survives her sister's out of control wedding plans.)

But none of the seemingly perfect houses appeal to her; it's her realtor, Henry Watson, who's meeting all her specs. And Henry's using some risky and racy methods to help her discover what she really wants. Is he hot for more than just a deal? Or is she headed for heartbreak again?

Spouse Hunting: A romantic novella with humor and heart.

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Lovely quick escape read
Shorter stories are tough. You have to set up the story, characters, scene--everything in an economical fashion without looking rushed. You have to leave the reader feeling it was long enough to get the stories within the story spelled out. Some can't do in 200 pages what this writer managed to do in 70 pages. The characters are all nicely fleshed out, even the supporting ones. There are a few tokens, such as the lecherous boss and the ditzy sister, but even she gets her say in the end. This story is well worth the cost in money and time to read it. I admire the writer's relaxed prose. It takes many rewrites to achieve that relaxed, flowing story style. For once, in the short story, the length was just right.
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August 25, 2011 | Helpful Votes: 1 | Rating: 4

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How to Help Your Spouse Heal From Your Affair: A Compact Manual for the Unfaithful

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Most complete and consise information available
Linda MacDonald understands what is required from the betrayer if they want to restore their marriage, like no other counselor I am aware of. She spells out in consise terms what must be done, each point made is valid and cannot be ignored. As the betrayed spouse, I began to wonder if it was me, expecting more from my wife than what is reasonable in order to have a restored marriage, more than ten years after D-Day. After reading this book, my feelings have been validated. A year prior to reading this book, I had told her some of what I needed, needs that are noted in the book. She told me it was too hard for her to do that. As a result, we have not made the progress that is desired. I now know any further progress will require my acceptance of un-met needs.
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March 21, 2011 (Montana) | Helpful Votes: 23 | Rating: 5

Disagree with the negative reviews
Sometimes I have to wonder about folks who post extremely negative reviews. I am a counselor and bought this to give to a client and it is excellent. When people are hurting they don't want a thousand page textbook. This is as described: a practical self-help manual; and I found it to be very readable, concise and right on the money. I'm glad to have found something like this to share with clients who are suffering.
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October 9, 2011 (Franklin, TN, United States) | Helpful Votes: 15 | Rating: 5

how to help your spouse heal from your affair
This is an invaluable resource for counselors and clients alike. The practical nature of the author's steps to be taken and the honesty with which it is presented are exactly what most couples seeking counseling are looking for. In my experience, the entire issue of recovering from an affair is so befuddling, confusing,painful and guilt producing for the infidel and the faithful spouse alike, that they are often buried in their grief. This book helps them part the fog and see that there is hope for healing.. Thankyou Linda!
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December 8, 2010 | Helpful Votes: 10 | Rating: 5

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Once an affair comes to light, many unfaithful persons "wake up" and want to save their marriages. Yet, they usually make terrible mistakes in their bungled attempts to win back their partners' trust. Linda J. MacDonald, an infidelity specialist for 23 years, has identified behaviors and attitudes that determine unfaithful persons' success or failure to mend their marriages after the wrecking ball of an affair.

How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair offers practical advice for those who've strayed and want a second chance. It would take weeks of therapy to learn what Successful Rebuilders know:

How to avoid the potholes that doom marriages after affairs
Critical guidelines for the first hours after discovery
15 essential steps for repair after betrayal
Skills to cope with your partner's obsessions and "triggers"
Ways to undo the damage from your lies
The keys to avoid prolonging your spouse's agony (and yours)
The difference between helpful and harmful apologies
How to rebuild your broken life, relationships, and integrity

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Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal

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A window to my soul and salve to my heart
Oh-my-goodness! I'm only on page 93, but just realized that for the past 5 years I have felt like I've been living like I'm in a front-loading washing machine and no one can really see me, no one knows I'm here, but they don't look. I can see out, but I remain alone. I had an amazing counselor who saw me. Thank You God for him. But I finally feel like there is someone IN here, WITH me. Someone understands where I have lived the last 5 years, and prior. Thank you Marsha and Barb. Thank You. From a partner of a sex addict, great guy, but doesn't connect with me, yet blames me for my efforts to remain safe in an emotionally unsafe marriage, I can't stress enough that this is a must read for partners and those who want a window into partners' souls. Counselors - please, please, I beg you, read this. Understanding, validation and affirmation have been the MOST soothing and healing things I have experienced on my path toward healing this traumatic, deep pain. Please read this...
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August 30, 2009 (California) | Helpful Votes: 50 | Rating: 5

Finally, a book that addresses the trauma a spouse goes through
I was so grateful to read this book. It's definitely the missing-link in treatment for the spouses of sex addicts. Unlike the traditional Patrick Carnes model, this book is about recognizing and treating trauma in spouses.As the spouse of a sex addict, the co-addict label has never felt 'true' to me. Each of us are different, in recovery, but unlike so many people that I know, I've never had a big discovery moment before, or found porn or anything. My discovery was truly the shock of my life. I love this book because it recognizes the trauma for what it is, and details many of the symptoms I have had, like PTSD. It doesn't call me codependent, and doesn't tell me that I am to blame for part of what's happened. (how would I have known?) It does address some of the beginnings of the deep emotional abuse it's taken my husband to use, to keep me in the dark about his addiction.Don't buy this book for your husband to read, or for you to understand him. (Most of us...
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March 15, 2010 | Helpful Votes: 38 | Rating: 5

Why it hurts so bad and how to deal with it.
Affects of sexual addiction are devastating, from the first surge of shock through the speechless terror, riding the wave of disassociation, from this is really only a bad dream to reality; you are never the same. This book covers it. It validates your deep painful wounds, explains the trauma, chemical reactions in your body, gives you concrete recommendations, and does not skirt the physical / psychological reality of harm and priority of safety. Awesome reality checks to pastors and counselors as well as in depth bibliography if you choose to go deeper.Kudos to Barbara and Marsha, for shifting the paradigm and giving many such a powerful concise tools to deal with the obliteration of their security and trust; personally your timing has been perfect.Buy two because someone you know or don't know through a third party has been traumatized and could use it.
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November 4, 2009 | Helpful Votes: 27 | Rating: 5

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Sexual addictions and compulsive sexual behavior are growing societal problems, with as many as three to six percent of the world population affected. Your Sexually Addicted Partner shatters the stigma and shame that millions of men and women carry when their partners are sexually addicted. They receive little empathy for their pain, which means they suffer alone, often shocked and isolated by the trauma. Barbara Steffens' groundbreaking new research shows that partners are not codependents but post-traumatic stress victims, while Marsha Means' personal experience provides insights, strategies, and critical steps to recognize, deal with, and heal partners of sexually addicted relationships. Firsthand accounts and stories reveal the impact of this addiction on survivors' lives. Chapters end with On a Personal Note” questions and propose new paths that lead from trauma to empowerment, health, and hope. Useful appendices list health and mental health care providers and clergy.

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Sexperiment: 7 Days to Lasting Intimacy with Your Spouse

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Great Book!
This has been a great book so far. My husband and I are reading it together so it is a little slow going. We are really enjoying it. I am more interested in becoming closer as a couple then the 7 days in a row. It is a great way to convince your husband to read it with you and participate if he knows he is going to get 7 days of intimacy. I would recommend this to any married couple whether you have been married 6 months or 6 years.
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March 29, 2012 (DC) | Helpful Votes: 1 | Rating: 5

The three letter church Swear Word "SEX"
As a guy, I fall into the stereotypical GUY column of "why on earth would I ever read a Marriage book"...This book was written for me. First off it catches the attention of the guys out there with the title! Like they say, sex sells... Then it is written primarily to the men by Ed Young, with sections to the women as well.All through the first couple chapters you can catch yourself going 'oh that applies' preach it! And then it hits home.Having been married for 11 years now and having 4 kids, so many of the 'sexcuses' that are mentioned in this book apply to our marriage. I read this book thinking of so many things that I wanted to put into play that would bring our marriage better strength and intimacy that would last as we move forward with God's plan for our lives (Adopting 2 special needs children from China).After reading this book I want to buy cases of them and give them away to all the married couples in our church. No one...
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March 19, 2012 | Helpful Votes: 0 | Rating: 5

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The predominant message in our culture is that it's okay to have sex whenever, wherever, and however we want. Sex has become just sex. But while society has taken sex too far, the church hasn't taken it far enough.

God wants couples to make love in marriage-with passion, with purpose, and with pleasure. Marriages aren't experiencing all the benefits that come from a healthy sex life. Couples are facing a barrage of influences that keep them from connecting with each other regularly-the kids, the career, the house, the errands, etc.

SEXPERIMENT shows people that sex in marriage is more than just sex, and it's more than a chore. The Youngs believe it's time to get back to understanding the context of sex in marriage and that it's time for couples to break the barriers keeping them from a healthy sexual relationship. Couples ought to experience the benefits of having sex regularly, intentionally, and creatively. SEXPERIMENT will allow couples to discover that the intersection of God and sex can lead to a life punctuated by exclamation marks! Top to learn more

I Was Skeptical At First ...
The Sexperiment is about a challenge for married couples in the church where Ed Young serves as lead pastor to make love for seven consecutive days. The quotes used by co-authors Ed and Lisa Young in this book would lead a reader to believe that the sexperiment has revolutionized some marriages.When I first began reading about the sexperiment I was immediately drawn to the question, "What would make this sexperiment so beneficial (beyond the obvious)?" In other words, I wanted to know if this whole thing was just a gimmick used to draw in the curious crowd. If it's more than a gimmick, why did the sexperiment have such a big impact. And throughout the book those questions stayed at the forefront of my mind.Eventually I found myself satisfied when...
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March 20, 2012 (Callaway, Virginia) | Helpful Votes: 2 | Rating: 4

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How to Act Right When Your Spouse Acts Wrong

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A Book for Every Marriage
Every husband and wife should read this book. Leslie's teaching is practical, as well as profound. For those who are "gutting it out" in their marriages, she offers help and hope, and even the best marriages could be improved by reading her book. Some of what she teaches that impacted me include the following:* FAIRNESS: "Most of us live under the illusion that life is fair--or at least should be. The illusion that marriage is fifty-fifty. I shouldn't have to give more than I get. This kind of wishful thinking will always keep us stuck in immaturity or resentment. Or both."* CHOICES: "Our choices reveal what we love the most, what we fear, what is of ultimate value to us, and what we think we need in life--in other words, our choices expose the dominant desires of our heart."* TRAINING: "God never tells us to try to be spiritual, he tells us to train. ... Do you want to be more like Jesus? Stop trying and start...
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October 27, 2001 (Loyalton, CA USA) | Helpful Votes: 22 | Rating: 5

A Must Read!
I have read countless books on marriage, not because I have a hard marriage, just the opposite.I feel my marriage is worth all the effort I put into it and because our Enemy is always throwing those daggers at Christian marriages it never hurts to be encouraged by others. Leslie has written one of the best if not THE best book on marriage that I have ever read. It does not seem to be a book written through the human perspective it seems that all of her wisdom is God-given and Biblical in nature. You could almost think of her book as a bible study on acting right (at any time, not just in marriage)! She not only tells how to act right but why we should and how we will benefit and how our spouse will benefit. She does not promise that acting right will guarantee that your spouse will begin to act right also. That is not the issue. The issue is that we are in a marriage not for our felt needs she says but our real needs and what we really need is to learn to be more...
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August 26, 2002 (PA United States) | Helpful Votes: 20 | Rating: 5

"For every husband, every wife."
Unless you're married to Jesus, your spouse often acts wrong. The most natural thing in the world is to react in kind. Natural, but not helpful! With tremendous insight, licensed counselor Leslie Vernick explains what our reactions reveal about us, why it's so important we respond right, and how to practically act right when everything within us wants to act wrong. I found this book incredibly convicting, extremely encouraging, and highly practical. Give your marriage a gift and read this book as soon as possible. And, when you're finished, pass it on to your spouse. Chances are his/her mate doesn't always act right either!
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October 30, 2001 (Oklahoma City, Oklahoma United States) | Helpful Votes: 6 | Rating: 5

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Experience the Blessings of an Imperfect Marriage. We all–at one time or another–have the opportunity to act right when our spouse acts wrong. There are no perfect marriages or perfect spouses. We know that having a good marriage requires effort and hard work. Yet we often don’t know how to continue to love when we are angry, hurt, scared, or just plain irritated. Nor are we sure what that kind of love is supposed to look like. Should we be patient? Forgive and forget? Do something else entirely?

Acting right when your spouse acts wrong will not necessarily guarantee a more satisfying marital relationship, nor will it automatically make your spouse change his or her ways–although both could occur. It will, however, help you see how God is stretching you in the midst of your marital difficulties, teach you to respond wisely when wronged, and lead you into a deeper relationship with Christ as you yield your will to his plan for your life and learn to be more like him. Top to learn more

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So what is really wrong in wanting a spouse who is good looking, has a good job, well behaved. a good looking, decent guy who has a nice job and a house. In a casual conversation I had asked her what kind of a groom would she be looking for…and there are no prizes for getting the answer. Try and spend time to understand the real person behind that well-dressed/groomed sophisticated individual. sense of humor or the lack of it. Somewhere did our schooling or parenting choke our emotions deep within us. As you look for that right partner (even if it is an arranged marriage).

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